" Are we destroyers of our own selves in life"
How we get caught up in life and the problem build up so badly .
And we just do not know where to turn too.
We think there is no way out of our problems that we created upon our own being.
Because of the abuse that we get from are mates and growing up.
We love them so much but there is a turning point that we just can’t stand the hurt and pain.
We go to drinking but that will not solve the problems that we go through or drugs.
Or running away from the problem and making excuse up to get out of the very truth that a person does not want to face.
We have to finely end the problem in our life so we have a sane mind to understand what is going on.
To make our self’s well in mind, loving in our self’s, spiritual love, being at peace , having understand of another hurts.
Sometime we think we can do it alone but we need help in which we must ask for help.
It get so over bearing of what others do and say.
Not caring not giving just destroying things and people mines!
We blame others for our mistakes intend of blaming our self.
I see so many blaming things on other instead of them self.
And to deal with there problems and facing what they have done or said to another that is cruel.
It is time that we quite blaming other for the mistake we make and blame our self for the damage that we have caused for others.
We also have to realize when we should leave another when you have tried your best and things do not change.
Some people stay with another because they feel there is no way out, But there is and always will be.
They think that a person will change if you buy them gifts or bag them to change.
This might work for awhile but not for long.
We have to face what ever it may be even if it hurts.
So what are we doing to are family and are children?
What are we doing to them when they see thing that hurt them?
People try to control others in life in which is wrong and threaten another to get there way.
Or throwing things out that another has and don’t even ask.
This is not loving a person it is trying to take control of another person’s life in which we have no right to do.
It is what we learn by are parents and others that we see as we grow up in life what we should not do or do what is right.
I see children at the age of 12 and older want babies when they are still babies them self’s.
And I see children at the age of 13 and older having babies.
This shows me that parents are not taking responsibilities for there children or there pets.
So my question is why are we taking the responsibilities as adult to see that we do the right thing by taking care of our children?
I see people throwing there trash out on the grown not even caring what it does to the earth.
And we are not taking the responsibility for are own action and what we do.
And its the same thing as marriage as soon as the papers are signed people think they own one another.
Well they are so wrong because this is control of that persons life in which we have no right to do.
We are free as a human being and are adults and should have the sense that men and woman do not take orders from another.
We should ask not order as it another way of control of another.
Hitting each other is being a child and not adult and a lot of people think if I hit that person I will get what I want in life.
But that is not the answer at all .
What happen is that a person that is treated that way get very scared and afraid of another and causes emotional problems.
And they walk on pins and needles because they are afraid of being along with out that person.
Or they get beaten for what they didn’t do or say.
And this goes on and on in till that person whether its a man or woman has had enough and get up and leaves.
People think they can change a person and you cannot do this unless that person is willing to change his or hers life for the better.
And if you think you can you will be very hurt and mistaken.
Written By,
Sharon Ann Cressy
November 15 2011
Time: 10:59 PM
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